A couple of years ago our family knew that the time had come for my father to move from his condo of 30 years into some kind of assisted living. His dementia had advanced to a point that he couldn’t be left alone and our step-mother could no longer take care of all of his needs. We thought the best fit for him was an adult family home.
After visiting various AFHs in the Tacoma area, many of which were perfectly adequate but rather “institutional”, we found Lavinia’s home in University Place. I could go on and on about how great this home is but I will confine my review to the main aspects that stand out to me.
I would emphasize that this is truly a “home” in every sense of the word. It is run by a wonderful family: a young couple, their two children and dog. The family lives downstairs so the environment is calm and quiet, but one has the benefits of a full family without any of the noise or disturbances. From the moment you walk in you feel like you are visiting relatives - your relatives! My father was brought in and really became a member of the family. The meals are delicious and Lavinia (and Peter) make sure that everyone is eating well and getting food that is nutritious and tasty. One thing that impressed me immediately is that the kitchen was not industrial like the other places we visited, but a real family kitchen, with a dining table right off the kitchen.
The home is spotlessly clean in every area. There are multiple bathrooms that are fully equipped for ADA compliance. The family has an amazing vegetable garden off one side of the house and beautiful flower beds all around the house. There is a large deck for sunny days and an amazing view of the Puget Sound. The two large sitting rooms look out over the Sound and Olympic mountains and several of the bedrooms also have views. The facility is homey, clean and inspiring with bookshelves, beautiful artwork and comfortable rooms for sitting, watching TV, reading and talking.
Lavinia is a registered nurse. She knows the medical needs of all of the guests and is personally able to provide medical attention and as an RN she knows when more medical attention is required. This is the only home we visited that was owned and operated by an RN.
The most important feature of this home is the owner/operators: Lavinia and Peter. They are warm, caring, loving people. I can call or text them at any time and find out how things are going. They really know each of the members of the house so personally and care for each one of them as individuals. I feel so fortunate that they are there for our family.
About nine months ago my step-mother decided it was time for her to make a move and she didn’t even want to visit any other places. She told us that she only wanted to go to Lavinia’s place.
I cannot imagine a better adult family home! It is that simple. This place is perfect. Make sure you check it out.